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On this episode, Kayla talks with Curtis Kelley about self-regulation skills for puppies!
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What is self-regulation?
- A dog that can handle small upsets and frustrations, ie. not getting a treat right away for offering a behavior that is normally rewarded.
- A dog that can handle touch and stimulation
- Being able to just “exist”
What is lack of self-regulation?
- Examples are biting and nipping, jumping up, barking
- “Acting up” and “being naughty”
- A dog not being to handle an upset or stimulation
Why is self-regulation so hard for puppies?
- Your puppy is only a few months old, so everything is new
What games or exercises are helpful here?
- Teaching them to give kisses and taking treats gently will help with biting and nipping inhibition
- Up/down regulation game; get your puppy really excited then bring them back down
- Start small, and don’t get them too worked up past their threshold level
- Use high value rewards to keep them in that down
- Down time for 5 – 6 minutes for every 1 minute of excited time
- The abruptness will make it difficult, but it will help them learn the value of different states of excitement
- Teaching your puppy to be limp in your arms, not squirming
- Its okay to reward you dog for faking it until they make it
- It is the broad subject of self-regulation we want to teach in the end
How does choice/control/confinement come into play?
- It is a fluid balance that changes from dog to dog
- Some dogs could not go to sleep anywhere outside of the crate, some dogs can learn to sleep anywhere
- Use a crate for at least the beginning stages of the puppy’s life
- Confinement is a useful separation from the rest of the world for them to just be themselves
Tips for training self-regulation:
- You want to go into any training session about self-regulation as a concept rather than a specific type of cue
- Make sure you are in a good emotional and physical state
- You should have at least an hour of time set for the session, because puppies might take awhile to settle down
- Don’t ask them to settle without blowing off a little bit of steam first
Using pacifiers for self-regulation:
- Bones, chews, and high value independent games can help with settling dogs or as an inbetween stage between being excited and sleeping
- If the puppy chews too intently, they might amp themselves back up, so be mindful how long they are using it
- It varies for every dog
The most important thing to remember is to adjust your expectations and meet your puppy where they are at. Aim for success, and be forgiving to yourself and your puppy.
Where you can find Curtis:
This podcast is also supported by the Puppy Raising Blueprint course, which you can find at journeydogtraining.com/blueprint. In this course, I guide you through everything from common problem behaviors like biting and potty training to the humane hierarchy of dog training. It’s always available on a self-study basis at journeydogtraining.com/blueprint.
Kayla grew up in northern Wisconsin and studied ecology and animal behavior at Colorado College. She founded Journey Dog Training in 2013 to provide high-quality and affordable dog behavior advice. She’s an avid adventurer and has driven much of the Pan-American Highway with her border collie Barley. She now travels the US in a 2006 Sprinter with her two border collies, Barley and Niffler. Aside from running Journey Dog Training, Kayla also runs the nonprofit K9 Conservationists, where she and the dogs work as conservation detection dog teams.