Many dogs really love rough-and-tumble play. But how do you know when your dog’s wrestling has gone too far?
In today’s Ask a Behavior Consultant, we answer the question,
I recently got a 8wk pitbull & 10wk boxer. They play fight constantly, and sometimes it’s too aggressive for my liking. Should I be stopping this type of play?
– Sincerely, Alberta
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Are My Puppies Playing Too Rough?
Luckily for Alberta, there’s actually a pretty easy way to tell if your dogs or puppies are playing too rough with each other:
- Observe the puppies
tosee if their play has niceback-and-forth. In general, if the puppies are taking turns chasing, tackling, and biting, the play is probably OK. If the play is a bit more one-sided, go to step 3.
- Watch the puppy’s body language. Do they seem loose and waggy, with huge play grins and bouncy movements? Or does one of them have wide eyes, pinned-back ears, or a tucked tail? How the dogs communicate with each other can tell you a lot about how they’re feeling.
- Pick up the bigger or more playful puppy (the one who does more chasing, tackling, etc).
- See what the less playful puppy does. Does she try to keep playing, or does she shake off and walk away? If she keeps trying to play with the puppy in your arms, then she’s saying that she enjoys the playtime. Let them have another go! If she welcomes the break from playtime with the other puppy, then it’s a sign the play was too rough for her.
How Do I Interrupt My Puppy’s Playtime?
It’s always good to teach your dogs to be able to listen to you even when they’re playing. When the puppies are little, you can just scoop them up. But what do you do when Alberta’s pit bull and boxer are over 50 pounds each?
Practice teaching your puppies hand targets (one at a time, in separate training sessions) and then build up their ability to listen to you using the “Can You Listen When…?” game!
Playing the “Can You Listen When…?” Game
Only start this came when your puppies are both already good at the hand targets we taught above. The game is described here.
The goal of this game is to teach your dog to gradually ignore more and more distracting situations. It should be fun and relaxing – not a test!
When your puppies are total pros at the “Can You Listen When…?” game, you’ll be able to start using hand targets to interrupt their playtime. Be sure to reward with lots of tasty treats when they get it right!
A Quick Note On Raising Puppies Together
Raising two puppies of the same age together is really tough. It’s incredibly important to teach the two puppies to be social with other people, dogs, surfaces, sounds, and more alone as well as together.
Teach the puppies to sleep in separate crates and in different rooms. Be sure to walk them, train them, and socialize them separately. I use this socialization checklist from Dr. Sophia Yin.
Aggression between puppies that are raised together is quite common as they hit social maturity. It’s kind of like sharing your house with your 30-year-old brother.
Being careful to lay the foundations right now will help you keep the peace as they get older!
Kayla is from Ashland, Wisconsin but lives in Missoula Montana. She holds a degree in biology from Colorado College and has spent years working in zoos, animal shelters, and as a private dog trainer. When not working on Journey Dog Training, Kayla works at Working Dogs for Conservation. She is a Certified Dog Behavior Consultant. She shares her life with her dog Barley.